Timberlina was back on After Dark with Louise Wilkinson again this week answering all the burning questions you’re too scared to ask.
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Initiation in Islington
My girlfriend used to be really sexy and seductive but lately the way that she initiates sex is horribly unsexy. She’ll put my hand down her pants or she’ll say something like “do you want to do it” which makes me cringe. How do I get her to be better at initiating sex?
I guess it comes back to communication. You need to open up about how you feel to her. It’s like when you start a job, obviously, in those first couple weeks, you want to impress and knock it out of the park and then, after that, you need to be motivated to keep doing trying.
Our intimate relationships are actually quite important and they require a little bit of upkeep and what I feel is happening here is that you’ve both reached this point in the relationship where, quite honestly, you’ve got a bit lazy.
I think you could plan a romantic night and put some effort in and she might think, “oh, maybe I could put in some effort and be a little bit more seductive”. It’s really important to keep bringing the spice back into relationships.
Porn watching in Warratah
My boyfriend watches a lot of porn. I actually like watching porn too but only when we’re together. My boyfriend often says that he’s not in the mood for sex but then I find him watching porn.
We have had a similar question before and I think that you need to go into any sexual relationship with an open mind and have a chat with him about going without porn for a while and see if that improves things.
And if that doesn’t work maybe you need to speak to a relationship professional.
Communication in Carrington
My partner wants to know what I like in bed. And while I know he’ll do anything he can to please me, I’m a bit nervous and I’m worried this will kill the mood. How do I learn to talk to my partner in bed?
If you’re worried about communicating you can explore.
If it’s something physical, you can move them, or yourself, into a position where you find that you like it more, or it turns you on more.
If you don’t know exactly what you want you can explore each other and find a rhythm in what you really like. And then, when you connect, you’re both going to know it instinctually.
I look forward to answering more of your questions next time. You can send them to me on Instagram or email afterdark@newcastlelive.com.au
Glittery Love,
Timberlina
